Sunday, December 29, 2024

2024 Year in Review

NOVEMBER: I decided to start with the most current and work my way back.  Mary and I started planning our bourbon trip in January.  The four of us took this trip right before Thanksgiving.  It did not disappoint.  We had such a good time together.  What a blessing it is to have good friends to travel with.  
OCTOBER: As I reflect back on 2024 I am so grateful.  It was truly a wonderful year filled with birthdays, graduations and trips.  Speaking of trips, In October Mike and I took our first trip together to visit Mike and Jenny.  We loved it.  It's freeing to know we can travel together now, just the two of us.  
NOVEMBER: Nick killed his first deer and it was a big one.  As I write this we have we are enjoying his meat this winter and Nick is waiting to have get the mount back of his head.  I am thankful to Nick's friends who showed him the ropes of this sport.  
OCTOBER: Sweet Rylan.  Rylan came into Nick's life this summer and she is such a blessing to our family.  She graduated from H.S. this December and will start school to become a nurse in January.  This picture is from homecoming.  
AUGUST: One of the biggest blessings we experienced this year is our restored relationship with John.  Sadly, Linda passed away unexpectedly in February.  John stayed in FL until April.  When we came home for the summer and fall we spent a lot of time together.  Just a week ago John flew home to spend Christmas with us and we had a really nice time together.  I appreciate John's wisdom and it's been nice for Jay, Nick and Mike to have him present in their lives.  This particular picture was from John's birthday dinner in August.  
SUMMER: In January I got turned onto C.W.A. from a podcast.  It had to have been God who orchestered it all because I can't remember exactly how one thing lead to another but in the end I got approved to be a chapter leader for C.W.A. and to say I love it is an understatement.  To say I'm equipped for it is so far from the truth.  The reality of it is I have to depend on God to strengthen me and guide me because trust me, I am no leader (without God's guidance).  I am extremely passionate, however, about everything that C.W.A. is about.  My group is slowly growing.  As Mary has reminded me if I keep throwing out the net, God will provide the fishes.  
JUNE: Jay and I and his girlfriend took a trip to FL.  This was our annual trip with Aunt Karen and Kim's family also went.  Jay and I love a good old fashioned together.  Jay and his girlfriend broke up just a few weeks ago.  Jay is doing well, learning more about himself along the way.  Wisdom and character are often gained when break ups like these happen.  As I reflect back on that trip I am so thankful for the time I got with Jay and my family.  We always have a great time, even though Kim ended up breaking her foot on that trip which slowed her entire summer down.  
JUNE: Kim and I attended Soul Care conference.  It was life changing.  I love how the Lord works and calls us to grow and abide in Him.  
MAY:  we lost our sweet Copper.  This picture of her was taken a few days before she died.  I was trying to get her to eat and she was having none of it.  We miss her.  She was a good dog.  
MAY: The big event from 2024 was Nick's H.S. graduation.  I was never so glad to see someone cross the finish line.  Nick spent his entire senior year just going through the motions with the school.  I don't like to use the word hate but he HATED school.  I'm pretty sure that he barely passed but his teachers didn't want him back so they were willing to do whatever to make sure he passed.  
MAY: May was a big month.  I turned 50!  Kim threw me a fabulous brunch party (picture below) and Mike and I were in Nashville on my actual birthday.  I loved all of it.  

                                       APRIL:  In late April we celebrated Nick's 18th birthday.  
APRIL: Also in April we celebrated my dear friend, Sarah's, 50th birthday. Jenny also came home for her birthday and surprised her.  
MARCH: Mike and I attended Aunt Karen and Uncle Kerry's 40th Anniversary party.  I also went to FL (picture below) to visit Kelly while Aunt Karen was there.  

MARCH: we celebrated Mom's 73rd birthday.  Life in general is hard for mom.  Her health has declined this year and it's very difficult for her to get around.  In May she woke up one morning and couldn't move her legs.  She spent most of the summer hindered by lack of movement but finally she was able to transfer which made things easier.  She is 95% wheelchair bound now but again she can transfer so we can still get her out in a car and take her places and I'm very thankful for that.  
MARCH: Kim, Lauren, Amber and I attended a Golden Girls show.  Cora couldn't make it.  Kim and I make an effort to get together with our cousins once every four months.  It's a blessing to have a close relationship with my cousins.  
The year always starts out with Jay's birthday which I couldn't get a picture to download from his birthday.  Ugh.  This picture of Mike and I is from February at the bass bash. That's one thing I forgot to blog about this year.  Mike and I have stepped back from the fishing team because we have so many kids involved now with such capable parents who are doing a great job.  I am so proud of this team and so proud of Nick.  Nick and his partner, Brantson, made nationals again and competed in Alabama in late July.  They didn't do great but it was an honor to go.  Now that Nick's H.S. fishing career is over he is going to be a captain for the team and he'll continue to compete in adult tournaments. 

It really was a great year, filled with unexpected blessings, some challenges but overall the blessings outweighed the challenges.  I'm actively involved with my church (another blessing) and although my boys are grown and I am enjoying more self care for myself, it is bittersweet.  That being said enjoying your adult children and witnessing the men that God is making them into is so fulfilling.  It makes all those hard years of parenting and all those prayers worth it.  
 

Thursday, December 26, 2024

Merry Christmas 2024

2024 may just go down as one of the sweetest Christmas' we've ever had.  On Christmas eve my family, my mom, John and his brother, Steve, went to church together.  Afterwards everyone gathered at my house (except for mom) for dinner.  John flew in from FL on Dec. 23 and spent the week with us.  It was a pleasure having him here and it gave the boys a chance to reconnect with their grandfather.  
On Christmas day everyone slept in and we had breakfast together.  Nick took John to his fab shop so he could show him where he works.  We opened presents together, just the five of us.  My sister and family and my mom and Steve too showed up in the early afternoon.  Mike made a delicious prime  rib (again).  We opened more presents, played games and just enjoyed being together.  
My mom and her grands.  It's getting harder and harder for my mom but every year she is able to make it to my house for Christmas is a blessing.  
Kim was so creative this year.  She likes to give them money but she also likes to make them work for it. 
Rylan is Nick's girlfriend of six months.  She is a joy to have around.  And as we said to her yesterday, we have to love Nick but she chooses to love him.  Ha.  
Mom, Jay and Nick at church on Xmas Eve.  It was our first Xmas eve in our "new" church.  Last year our new baby church was celebrating xmas eve at  hotel.  

As I reflect on Christmas this year I am so thankful for all of God's provisions.  He has been so good to my family.  So many times during this season I reflected on God sending his only Son to save us.  It takes my breath away every time.  It's truly the greatest gift and love story of all time.  
 

Friday, December 20, 2024

Happy 52nd Birthday, Mike


 We celebrated Mike's birthday yesterday with a bunch of men.  Ha!  Chase, Nick and Jay had dinner with us.  I joked that the trades were well represented in this picture.  A home inspector (who can really do just about anything and everything), a lineman, a welder and an electrician. I love these boys!  Later, our friends, Ryan and Jenna came over for cocktails and cake.  Happy Birthday, Sieb!

Wednesday, December 11, 2024

Nick's big surprise

Nick's best buddies, B and Chase, graduate from Lineman School in GA this week.  Nick debated whether or not to go.  He was going to have to miss 4 days from work and if you know Nick you know he never misses work - ever.  But it was worth it to go to GA and surprise B and Chase.  Nick is in GA now and will be home at the end of the week.  The boys had no idea he was coming.  I'm glad he went.  Who knows where these boys will land jobs at so it was good for Nick to go and spend time with them.  

 Nick hitched a ride to GA with B's parents, literally Nick's second family.  I think Nick must talk to Ryan at least twice a day.  Ha!  They are good people! 

Monday, December 9, 2024

Happy 17th Birthday, Lauren


 We celebrated sweet Lauren this weekend.  My sister had a "Mama Mia" party for her.  I just love my niece.  She is truly one of the sweetest people I know.  Happy 17th Birthday!

Monday, December 2, 2024

Thanksgiving 2024

We had another wonderful Thanksgiving.  Kim hosted and we all celebrated on Saturday (instead of Thanksgiving day).  John joined us this year and so did his brother, Steve.  The girls were all there.  We were a group of 13.  What a blessing family is! 
My precious momma.  It is harder and harder for her to get around and she is wheelchair bound 90% of the time but she has such a thankful heart.  
                                                                      Da Birds!


 The girls and then the final picture - my beloved sister.  Never a dull moment with my sissy.  

Tuesday, November 26, 2024

Our Bourbon Trip

This past weekend Mike and I, Mary and John took off for Kentucky.  We had been planning this trip since January.  We had such a good time.  We stayed in a bourbon barrel and had a blast.  The only thing we would change is the weather.  It was cold.  If we ever did it again we would go in the spring or in September or October.  
What a blessing good friends are.  The four of us had such a great time together.  We toured four distilleries.  Three big ones and one small local one.  

 Everyone said that Mike looked so happy in these pictures.  If you get Mike away, doing something he enjoys, he's always happy.  Ha!  This picture was taken at Castle and Key.  We did not tour this distillery.  The property is stunning and so are the buildings.  

Sunday, November 17, 2024

Trystan's Birthday

Trystan turned 22 on Nov. 14.  The next night, which happened to be a Friday, we went out for drinks and pizza.  We had a great time.  I love hanging out with my adult kids and their significant other.  I swear Mike was also with us, he just wasn't in any pictures. 
Four of favorite people!

I love these picture so much.  Jay's face is classic and Nick's smile is just glorious.  Typical brothers!

And it's not a party without Aunt Mimi.  I love all their faces in this picture.  So funny.  What a blessing family is.  

Monday, November 11, 2024

Cousins weekend


 For many years now my sister and I get together with our cousins, Amber and Cora .  We make every effort to see each other four times a year.  What a blessing it is to have them in my life and live close enough to get together so frequently.  This trip we went to Amber's.  She took us to a new cocktail lounge (hence our fancy drinks in the picture).  We had a wonderful time.  

Wednesday, November 6, 2024

A grand outcome

 I love to write and I don't know what to say in this moment so I'm going to do my best.  In 2020 I felt like it was the biggest election of my lifetime.  I was wrong.  2024 was and will likely be the biggest election of my lifetime.  In four years I have seen my country being taken over by illegal immigration, shamed over whether they were vaccinated or not, the weaponization of  government against policital opponents, abortion rights to the extreme, censorship, gender confusion and mutilation, high inflation, men invading women's spaces.  Not to mention the world being on fire with wars.  Over the past year the Lord has planted a deep passion of His word in my heart.  He also planted a love of politics and engagement in my heart.  The more I got to know the Lord, the more fired up I'd get about the things that matter to Him.  It was in early 2023 that I applied to be a CWA chapter leader.  I am unequipped to lead but the Lord has been so kind to me, strengthening me and preparing me and planting seeds.  My prayer is to continue to lead my group and honor Him in all I do.  The election is over with triumphant results and I am incredibly thankful for God's mercy for my children and my grandchildren.  America did not deserve His grace.  It is my mission to point everyone I know to Jesus and I will never apologize for it.  It's not a human leader that will change the hearts of Americans, it's the love of Jesus and the holy spirit within us.  Glory to God for his goodness. 


Monday, November 4, 2024

Nick's big weekend

Nick and his sweet girlfriend, Rylan.  She is patient as the day is long.  She puts up with Nick's fishing and hunting and not to mention his insane long hours at work.  She had these taken for her senior pictures.  She graduates in December and is going on to nursing school.  So exciting for her.  
This weekend Nick fished (of course).  The above picture was taken by someone random but it's Nick and his fishing partner.  It's a gorgeous picture.  
And the biggest news of the weekend is this beast.  Nick started hunting last year and got nothing.  On Friday night he went out and got this beast.  I named him "Buster the behemoth buck."  He is so big that Nick is having him mounted.  Needless to say we'll have plenty of deer meat for the winter.  

And tomorrow is election day.  Jay and I already voted.  Mike and Nick intend on voting tomorrow.  I've been in constant prayer for our nation.  
 

Monday, October 28, 2024

October wrap up

As I sat down to blog today I realized I haven't blogged since September.  Geesh!  October has been a crazy month.  We've had amazing weather.  So amazing that shudder to think of what our winter will be like.  There has been some ups and some downs but here we are.  Earlier in the month my sister, Lauren, Rylan and Luke went to the Brandon Lake concert (see picture above and below).  We had a great time. 

In mid October Kim and I took off to Quincy IL to hear my absolute favorite Christian speaker, Susie Larson, at her Rise Conference.  
About a week ago we all met up for dinner to bid John farewell as he headed south.  He left about five days ago for sunny Florida.  It was so nice having dinner as a family.  

 Sieb and I ended the month with Mike and Jenny.  What a blessing their friendship is to us.  It was especially sweet this time because Mike and I have never gone just the two of us.  For Nick's last two years of high school we felt that one of us should be at home to simply keep an eye out on things for him.  Now that he's 18 and graduated it was a perfect time for us to go.  Sieb and I even got bumped to first class.  It was truly wonderful spending a long four day weekend with our friends and great way to end the month.